so confused and scared? someone please help me?
Online I used a pregnancy calculator using the day i had sex and said i would be six to seven weeks pregnant, but i have had tests negative except one,
i have heard that in some people the test may not show positive until ten weeks along..has that happened to you?
ps: i cant go to the doctors by myself i dont have my license and my mom always comes into the doctors with me, since im 17.
we use protection everytime but one of the times the condom broke..which is why i am afraid, my father is a pastor and will flip if i am but abortion is not going to happen, my boyfriend and i would raise the baby, hes in the army and has a good paying job…it will break my mothers heart and my fathers if i tell them i am and ill lose their trust, which is why i dont want to tell them until i know for sure,seeing as how my sister had her first when she was 16..
go to baby your baby. there pregnancy tests are 99.9% accurate and they are free
oh ok well ide say the best thing to do is wait to see if u have ur period if not u cn be pretty sure and then tell ur mom! which sucks sorry hope it all works out for ya
tell your mom
if you cant be honest with her what are you going to do if you are pregnant???
you can take another home one but take it as soon as you wake up might be the best thing….
First of all, get on some birth control.
Next, wait a week until after your missed period. You can talk to your doctor confidentially. Ask your mom to leave the room. Does she sit there at your gyno exam?!?!? Gross.
Anyway, stop having sex until you get on birth control.
You can take the last test you have, but I would wait until you’re at least a week late, that way the results should be accurate. Also, is there a friend that could take you to the doctor? A blood test is really the most reliable way to know, plus the doctor can tell you what you need to know if you are pregnant. Good luck!
Can you get a friend or relative you trust to take you since you are afraid? Call Sav-A-Life in Birmingham even if you stay somewhere else and see they can give you some advice and free testing. I used to be a counselor there.
Usually as long as you get one positive that means you’re pregnant, usually no false negatives. Go ahead and take the last one, once you’ve missed your period it’s fine to take it, but I would suggest getting to a doctor.
Don’t do this alone. If you can’t trust your mother, try putting your trust in another family member or friend who will be a positive force while being there for you at the doctors. Since your last period skipped and the pregnancy tests are not consistent, it’s important you go to a doctor as soon as possible, because it might not even be a pregnancy, but and sti instead.
Wait one more week..go by the ressponse you get and talk to your Momma..No matter how afraid you are..SHE will be ther for you.
hun if i was you i would go to a clinic you can go there all by yourself and your mom doesnt even have to know you dont even have to have an appointment good luck atleast you are almost 18 =)
Ask your mom to take you to the Dr. Tell her your having weird periods. She doesn’t have to go in the room with you.
You should go to the dr, either way. Pregnant or not pregnant. I think you said you already skipped the month before. That kinda confused me. but it only takes one pregnancy test to count. Are you testing first thing in the morning and reading the directions thoroughly? If you haven’t skipped already wait til you officially skip and then go to the dr. to figure out why your missing your period. It takes a month after your last period for it to be the most accurate. Good luck!
Wait until your period is about a week late until you take the last test and make sure you use your first morning urine. To go to the doctor as long as you are considered a minor you have to have a parent or gardian to sign before they can do any kind of test but you can talk to your doctor confidentially. Good luck!
maybe you can have the guy who got u pregnant or a friend take you to a planned parent hood or a free clinic becuase you can be a teen and go by yourself with no prob.I have heard of pregnancy tests giving false negatives so you could be but you really need to get to a doctor REALLY IMPORTANT but im sure you know that already
Jesus, you may be in a world of trouble it sounds like. If you can’t afford to buy more tests, you sure can’t afford the luxury of sex without birth control. I would say wait a couple of weeks, then do the last test….you won’t be any more pregnant or not than you are now. I know it will be on your mind constantly until then, but then you need to wait and do it correctly. If it comes positive, talk to your mom. If negative, consider yourself blessed and talk to your mom. Be honest…she knows it’s not the 1950’s and girls are having sex. She probably hopes you are not, but the reality is that she too owes some responsibility to you by getting you birth control unless she wants you to ruin your life by having a child you will raise by yourself. You could miss your senior prom, miss going to college, miss having the man of your dreams fall in love with you because he doesn’t want the responsibility of another man’s child. She could also finding herself raising a child until you become able to care for it yourself.
Girls your age seem to have trouble remembering to take a pill, so have your mom get you the shot for birth control.
I have lived the experience. My 16-yr-old was on the pill, but stopped taking when she broke up with boyfriend. Five months later she met a guy and had sex before I could get her back on BC and she had his baby that I raised until five years old. It was heartbreaking for all concerned. After the baby, she got on the shot, but ruined her chances to run for Miss Teen Texas; she had won a beauty contest at 15 and was planning to enter more……Good luck to you and if you are not pregnant, learn something from the fear and practice birth control.
have a close friend who has a license take you to the doctors. or planned parenthood. yes, theyre known for being pro-abortion but they can get you the meds and tests you need. abortion is an option for their way of seeing but it doesnt have to be for you. you can just say “no freakin thanks”
I agree with Hekate. The only way to know for sure is to see a doc. Have an older friend take you if you can’t face your mom. Or your bf…