Has your pregnancy symptoms ever made you think you were done having kids?
I am pregnant with my second child and I have been very sick this whole pregnancy. I am only 7 weeks pregnant and I know there is so much more discomfort coming. It makes me never want to get pregnant again. But it makes me sad because I have always dreamed of having 4 kids. Has anyone felt this way, and what was your decision?
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Yes I have felt that way before, but then that beautiful baby arrives and it is all forgotten. It is all so worth it. Now I just feel sad that the doctor said no more babies!
oh, you will change your mind after not having a little baby in the house anymore and forget the discomforts.. you are in the beginning of pregnancy, things will get better!
With my first I was very badly sick, and now this time it seems to be worse. I am defiantly not having any more kids after this. I am beginning to think I am allergic to being pregnant. I just don’t think I can do it again.
I had a “somewhat” miserable pregnancy w/ my son being on my sciatic nerve…at times it brought tears to my eyes. I was very jealous of the women who “loved” being pregnant. I LOVE my son but being pregnant was WORK!!!
My wife’s pregnancy symptoms are making me not want to have any more kids. Don’t tell her but I am getting the snip snip in two weeks.
yes i went throught the same thing at same time and unfortunatly i lost my baby by a miscarriage.
YES!!!! I was so sick with both my pregnancies, but with my second, even worse. I was sick 24/7 for the full nine months. At first, I lost a ton of weight and so I had to stop working for the rest of my pregnancy. It was terrible. And actually, I decided there would be no more kids because I couldn’t handle it. I got my tubes tied to make sure I wouldn’t have a change of heart. After a few years, the symptoms of a bad pregnancy don’t seem nearly as bad anymore, and I didn’t want to let that fool me. I love love love my children like crazy, but they were enough for me.
Do what is right for you. Some people are willing to put up with temporary discomfort for a lifetime of joy….I was not really one of them!! Haha. I did have two kids though, because I wanted at least that. I’m happy with my choices.
My first child I threw up sooo much that I broke blood vessels in my eyes and neck I lost 13 pounds by the time I was 20 weeks along. Thankfully, he was OK. Then my next pregnancy, I spent most of every day with my head hanging in the toilet. At 16 weeks, I stopped puking. I knew something was wrong b/c it stopped so suddenly. I had miscarried. My next pregnancy was even worse. I was still vomiting the day I gave birth. Long story short, my pregnancies were TERRIBLE, and I had my 4 kids. It was tough…but all worth it! Good luck and take care!
In my first trimester I had terrible morning sickness and I was SO tired, zombie mode. At that time all I would think is ‘What have I gotten myself into?’
LOL. I’m 33 weeks now and my little guy sure packs a punch. Time sure flies and so far I don’t mind being pregnant. I want my son to have a little brother or sister in the future.